I have a mother who shows early signs of dementia. On her clear days, she comforts her children and engages in calm, warm conversations. But on her clouded days, perhaps feeling regret for not being able to leave more behind, she dreams up delusions—suddenly, a house or even a building appears in my name.
They are just delusions.
Through them, I find myself facing a question: When a person stands at the edge of life, with their memories fading, what becomes truly important to them?
What will I face at the end of my own life?
Will I be longing for more money?
Will I be searching for deeper spiritual understanding?
Will I hold on to attachments or love for others?
There are many questions one could ask.
Of course, it’s important to grow—both inwardly and outwardly—to the point where such questions no longer haunt us.
But at this moment in time—what is your question?
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Thank you for the reminder again. The truth should be told repeatedly by those who understand. 🙏
I’m so sorry that your Mom is going through this
My question right now too would be about regrets – did I really do everything I could do, when I had the opportunity?
Asking this question now means I can do something for the me at the end. Thank you